I get it…Weddings are EXPENSIVE!! The dress, the venue, hair & makeup, the decor, the cake, the DJ, and then to top it off the photographer and videographer. The average couple spends between 19,000-32,000.00
WHEW! That is pricey! At least in my book it is.
Now I am not writing this to attack the wedding industry. These professionals prices reflect what they are worth, their time, and their talent. We ourselves are Wedding Photographers in the Hampton Roads area, and we come across many brides who their budget doesn’t “fit” us, and that’s okay.
Our prices are not outrageous, it just comes down to your own budget and what YOU can afford.
Your wedding day will be one of the most important days of your life.
This will be the day that you pronounce your love to your soul-mate and stand before God, your friends, and family and promise to love through whatever life may throw your way. It is such a special day and one that you will remember for the rest of your life. So how do you have that dream wedding and still be within a budget? The most important thing is figure out what is important to you. Is it the dress? The cake? The pictures? (Of course I am biased, but I believe pictures are one of the most important things you can invest in. They will be the very thing that you will go back to and remember that day.)
Make a list of what is most important to you. If pictures are important to you then make a list of photographers who you like and would be a good fit for you. Start with what’s most important then work your way down.
Getting it down on paper will help put things into perspective. Next you need to make a budget. How much total do you have to spend? Allocate that money into the categories that are most important to you.
Now that you have it on paper go over it with your fiancé to make sure that you both are in agreement. Starting the relationship off communicating about money is an AWESOME thing.
Luke and I have been through a lot financially over the past few years and we have come to the conclusion that Debt is not worth it. We don’t believe in debt and actually we run from it lol!
Everyone has their own opinions and I am not writing this to argue anyone’s view. Our view on debt comes from our own experiences.
As much as we are passionate about weddings, we are even more passionate about helping people with their finances. Money issues are one of the leading causes of divorces in America.
As wedding photographers, we want to see our couples OVERCOME the odds and become educated about their finances. I wish we were educated when we were newly married…it would have saved us a lot of heartache…
A book that changed our lives and that I recommend to EVERY newly married couple is Dave Ramsey’s Total Money Makeover
So here is an idea….A Debt Free wedding…..(Unheard of right?) But this is not impossible. Here are some ways you can cash-flow your wedding…
I know that there are more ways to Cash Flow your wedding….What are your ideas and thoughts? Let’s help the newly engaged couple to start their Marriage off right by staying out of Debt!